Arukh HaShulchan, Orach Chaim 265:13-266:7

Hook

The sweet scent of spices, the flicker of a braided candle, the lingering taste of wine – Havdalah, a multi-sensory farewell to Shabbat that resonates deeply across Sephardi and Mizrahi lands.

Context

Place

From the sun-drenched souks of Morocco to the ancient streets of Yemen, the bustling markets of Iraq to the vibrant communities of Izmir and Salonica.

Era

Tracing back through the Geonic period, weaving through centuries of vibrant Jewish life, and flourishing in our modern day.

Community

The diverse tapestry of Sephardi and Mizrahi Jews, who have steadfastly carried and enriched these traditions through generations.

Text Snapshot

From the Arukh HaShulchan, Orach Chaim 266:3-4, describing the Havdalah candle: "ודוקא נר של אבוקה, והוא נר של כמה פתילות, וצריך שיהיו דבוקות יחד, שאז נראה כנר אחד גדול... ונוהגין להסתכל בציפורניים של ידיו." (Specifically a torch-candle, which is a candle of several wicks, and they must be joined together, for then it appears as one large candle... And it is customary to look at the fingernails of one's hands.)

Minhag/Melody

The custom of using a braided, multi-wick candle, often beautifully adorned, is a hallmark of Havdalah in many Sephardi and Mizrahi homes. This "torch-candle" (נר של אבוקה) amplifies the light, an expression of hiddur mitzvah (beautifying the commandment), making the moment visually stunning as we bless the fire that distinguishes between holy and mundane.

Contrast

While the Arukh HaShulchan notes the widespread custom of looking at fingernails, some Sephardi communities (and Ashkenazi ones) might also look at the palm of their hand or even the back of their hand, seeing the reflection of the multi-wick flame. The intention remains the same: to benefit visually from the light and appreciate its distinction.

Home Practice

For your next Havdalah, seek out a beautiful, braided multi-wick candle. As you recite the blessing over the fire, take a moment to truly appreciate the intensified light, perhaps reflecting it on your fingernails or palm, and feel the ancient connection to this vibrant tradition.

Takeaway

Havdalah is more than just an ending; it’s a profound, sensory journey from the sacred stillness of Shabbat into the week. Through the radiant flame and fragrant spices, Sephardi and Mizrahi practices guide us, making this transition a moment of vibrant spiritual beauty.