Menachot 53 · Parenting voice, Bite-sized

As busy parents, we often feel like we're constantly trying to prevent things from "going sour" – whether it's a tantrum, a messy room, or a missed opportunity. Our tradition, in discussing the laws of meal offerings, teaches us about "watching over" the matza – not just making it unleavened initially, but actively preserving its state. This isn't about rigid perfection; it's about continuous, gentle attention. Just as the olive tree's leaves never fall, neither in summer nor winter, our children, despite their challenges and our perceived shortcomings, carry an inherent goodness and resilience that will ultimately shine through. Our job is to nurture that, not to panic at every sign of "leavening."

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"It shall be of matza” (Leviticus 2:5), which can be read as meaning: “Preserve matza." "Why were the Jewish people likened to an olive tree? It is to tell you that just as the leaves of an olive tree never fall off, neither in the summer nor in the rainy season, so too, the Jewish people will never be nullified, neither in this world nor in the World-to-Come." (Menachot 53)