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Menachot 90 · Parenting voice, Bite-sized

April 11, 2026

Insight: The Beauty of the "Overflow"

In the Temple, the measuring vessels were sacred. The Sages debated whether the "overflow"—the flour or oil that spilled over the rim—remained holy. Rabbi Yosei argues that because the liquid was displaced from the inside, it carried its holiness with it, while dry substances that never truly "lived" inside the vessel didn't count as sacred.

As parents, we often focus on the "vessel"—the structured, planned moments: the perfect Shabbat meal, the organized bedtime routine. But our children grow through the overflow. The holiness isn’t just in the main event; it’s in the messy, unplanned moments that spill out from our daily lives. When we are exhausted or our plans fail, remember that the "spillover" of your love and presence is what truly sanctifies your home.