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Mishneh Torah, Divorce 11 · Startup voice, On-ramp

October 2, 2026

Hook

In the high-velocity world of venture-backed startups, we obsess over "lock-in." We build proprietary tech stacks, multi-year enterprise contracts, and complex vesting schedules specifically to ensure that once a partner, employee, or customer is in, they stay in. We view "churn" as a mortal sin and "binding agreements" as the bedrock of valuation. But ask yourself: How many of your "binding" relationships are actually built on mutual, informed, and ongoing consent?

The Torah, in the laws of mi’un (refusal) found in Mishneh Torah, Divorce 11, presents a radical counter-perspective. It describes a legal framework where, under certain conditions, a party can simply declare, "I no longer desire this," and the entire structure dissolves as if it never existed. This isn't just about ancient marriage law; it is about the ethics of power imbalances. When a contract is signed by a party who lacks the capacity, maturity, or full agency to understand the long-term stakes, the "binding" nature of that contract is a moral fiction. In business, we often "marry" juniors, junior partners, or small vendors into restrictive covenants that they aren't equipped to negotiate. This text demands we ask: If your counterparty were suddenly granted the power to walk away tomorrow without penalty—no get (divorce document) required—would they stay because of the value you provide, or because they are trapped by your legal paperwork?