Daily Rambam

Mishneh Torah, Divorce 2 · Parenting voice, Bite-sized

September 23, 2026

The Power of Clear Intent

In our chaotic lives, we often use vague language: "Just get it done," or "You know what I mean." But Rambam teaches us that in matters of great consequence, precision is an act of love and integrity. When a husband appoints an agent to write a get (divorce document), he must be explicit. Using loose, ambiguous language—like "do what is right"—is insufficient because it leaves the outcome to guesswork, which can lead to heartbreaking legal voids. As parents, this is a profound reminder: when we delegate responsibilities to our children or partners, clarity is the greatest gift we can give. It prevents frustration and ensures everyone feels secure in their role.

Text Snapshot

"The husband himself must tell the scribe to write [the get] and the witnesses to sign [it]... When [a man] says: 'Write a get for my wife,' [the people he addresses] should write the get... but they should not give it to the woman unless he tells them to." — Mishneh Torah, Divorce 2:8, 10