Mishneh Torah, Human Dispositions 6

Hook

Ever feel like you’re picking up habits, good or bad, from the people around you? It's totally normal! Today, we'll explore an ancient Jewish idea about how our company shapes who we become.

Context

Here’s a quick overview of our source:

• Who: The Rambam, a very wise rabbi from long ago.
• When: Around 800 years ago (12th century).
• Where: Mostly Egypt, but he was born in Spain.
• What: His book Mishneh Torah, a clear guide to Jewish law.
• Key Term: Mishneh Torah – A big book explaining all Jewish laws simply.

Text Snapshot

The Rambam, in his Mishneh Torah, Human Dispositions 6, says: "It is natural for a person's character and actions to be influenced by his friends and associates... Therefore, he should associate with the righteous and be constantly in the company of the wise, so as to learn from their deeds." (Source: https://www.sefaria.org/Mishneh_Torah%2C_Human_Dispositions_6)

Close Reading

Insight 1: We're all sponges!

The Rambam reminds us that we naturally soak up what's around us. Just like a sponge, we absorb the vibes, habits, and even the way people think from our friends and community. This isn't a flaw; it's how we're built!

Insight 2: Choose your company wisely.

Since we're so influenced, the Rambam suggests being intentional. Want to be kinder? Hang out with kind people. Want to be smarter? Spend time with wise folks. It’s a gentle nudge to curate your social circle.

Apply It

This week, notice who you spend the most time with. Then, take 60 seconds to think about one positive trait you admire in someone you know. Try to spend a little extra time with them, even virtually!

Chevruta Mini

1. Can you think of a time someone's good energy rubbed off on you?
2. What's one quality you'd like to "catch" from someone else?

Takeaway

Your company isn't just company; it's your classroom for life.