Mishneh Torah, Human Dispositions 6

Hey there, fellow camp-alum! Ready for some grown-up campfire Torah? Let's dive in!

Hook

"Make new friends, but keep the old, one is silver and the other gold!" Remember that campfire song? Well, today we're diving into a deep, grown-up version of that classic camp wisdom, straight from the Rambam himself!

Context

• Our amazing trail guide, Maimonides, teaches us that our character isn't a fixed thing; it's always being shaped.
• We're influenced by our friends, our community, and the norms around us, whether we realize it or not.
• Just like a young sapling naturally bends towards the sunlight, we tend to lean into the behaviors and attitudes of those we spend time with.

Text Snapshot

"It is natural for a man's character and actions to be influenced by his friends and associates... Therefore, he should associate with the righteous and be constantly in the company of the wise, so as to learn from their deeds... 'He who walks with the wise will become wise, while one who associates with fools will suffer.'"

Close Reading

Insight 1: Proactive Positivity at Home

This isn't just about avoiding "bad" influences; it's a call to actively seek and cultivate positive ones. At home, this means intentionally creating uplifting connections – like a family Shabbat meal where everyone shares a "spark" from their week, or choosing media that inspires growth.

Insight 2: Mentorship for All Ages

The Rambam says to "cleave unto the wise and their disciples." This isn't just for kids! We all need mentors. Who are the "wise" in your life, whose actions and insights you want to learn from? How can you 'cleave' to them, even if it's just a weekly call or a shared learning session?

Micro-Ritual

This Friday night, as you light Shabbat candles, take a moment. Sing this simple niggun: [Sing-able line, gentle, rising then falling] "Walk with the wise, you'll become wise!" (Just two notes, 'walk with the wise' on the first, 'you'll become wise' on the second, repeated gently). Then, think of one "wise" person – living or historical – whose positive trait you want to bring into your home and heart this week.

Chevruta Mini

1. Who is one "wise" person in your life (past or present) whose influence has deeply shaped you?
2. What's one small, intentional step you can take this week to "cleave" more closely to a positive influence?

Takeaway

Your path is a living, breathing choice. Surround yourself with goodness, seek out those who inspire you, and let their light help you shine brighter, all the way home.