I Samuel 10

Insight: The "Hidden" Growth

Saul is anointed in private, hides among the baggage during his public coronation, and has to grow into his new identity. As parents, we often demand instant "results" from our children—better behavior, instant maturity, or perfect grades. But Saul reminds us that transformation is a process of internal shifting ("God gave him another heart," I Samuel 10:9) that happens long before the world notices. Your child’s growth is often happening in the "baggage" of their daily struggles—private, messy, and necessary.

Text Snapshot

"And when they came there, to the Hill, he saw a band of prophets coming toward him. Thereupon the spirit of God gripped him, and he spoke in ecstasy among them." I Samuel 10:10

Activity: The "Hidden Strengths" Walk (5 Mins)

Take a quick walk or sit together. Ask your child, "What is one thing you’re working on that nobody sees yet?" Share one for yourself (e.g., "I’m trying to be more patient when I’m tired"). Celebrate that these private efforts are the most important ones.

Script: When They Feel Inadequate

If your child says, "I'm not good at this like [Sibling/Peer]," try this: "Saul was the king, but even he had to start by hiding among the bags. You aren't supposed to be an expert on Day One. Right now, you’re in the 'learning' phase, and that’s exactly where the biggest changes happen."

Habit: The "Blessing of the Process"

This week, catch your child doing something "in progress"—the messy drawing, the half-finished chore, or the frustrated attempt at a task. Instead of asking if it's done, say: "I love seeing how hard you’re working on this. You’re becoming a person who doesn't give up."

Takeaway

Don't fear the "baggage." Your child’s development is unfolding exactly as it should, even if they aren't standing "a head taller" yet. Keep anointing them with your support, even when the world hasn't noticed their progress.